As
a woman and future wife to a God fearing..Sweet..Tall and handsome man..I have
come to realize that men cheat when they tend to be unhappy and sexually
unsatisfied.. they go out looking for who will make them happy and satisfy them
sexually...from my little insight into the male life I found out that when a
woman feels she has to work n take care of the kids she tend to forget that her
husband also v needs of his own..She makes him unhappy n deprive him of her
touch therefore making room for him to chase after girl which there is little
or no attraction between them..When a woman look good for her husband he tends to
stay home..When she satisfy him n make him happy..no other girl will be able to
get to him..My advice is women try n do researches on how to satisfy your man n
trust me u will see a whole lot of difference in your marriage
When
a man isn’t sexually they cheat on their wives or woman. Guys love adventures
during sex, they love it when their wives or woman is ready to explore new
things such as blow jobs, rimming role plays etc. Some women feel its wrong to
do all that exploration based on their believe and religion. But believe you me
that when you start exploring your husband will always come home after work
because he will be looking forward to such an adventurous wife/woman and also
wondering what she has up her sleeve for the evening.
When
a woman feels that she works all day also cook and take care of the kids, therefore
giving her attention to work and kids with none going to her husband, he seeks
for love and happiness and satisfaction from a total stranger.
Someone
who is ready and willing to give him the attention he needs without thinking of
her busy schedule. Someone who no matter what happened at work will always open
her arms to him. Who is ever ready for a kinky play with him, who dresses
attractive just to lure lonely men into her bosoms.
In
my years of dating, I once dated a guy that no matter what fight or quarrel we
had , he will always come home to me because he knew I always had a new style
of loving waiting for him after work, well as of then I was learning to be
adventurous and trying new things just to please him. That’s why a white woman
will always take our black men away from us especially those of us who lived
abroad.
A
white woman is ever ready to try something new. They read books to keep their
man, watch erotic movies, read magazines such as cosmopolitan etc, do
researches on how to satisfy a man, then they realize that a white guy ain’t
got what it take to satisfy them sexually but a black guy does. They become
friends with a black guy, talk dirty to him on phone and through text. When you
pay a white lady a visit, you will see a lot of kinky stuffs ranging from
vibrators to sexy underwear or lingerie or even role playing wears and toys. Then
you ask yourself what the heck. Then you wonder what she is doing with all
them, my dear that is how she getting a black man attention.
While
you sit at home wondering how she got him, are you not beautiful enough or even
more beautiful than she is, with the curves and big boobs, so why did is he
with her. You are sitting on a long thing according to D’banj. You need to be
spontaneous, get off your high horse, shop for things that will keep your man
at home, learn to start sexting him when he is at work or hanging out with the
guys.
Why
do you think your man hardly ever take you to the club, especially in Nigeria,
that’s because they enjoying seeing the
way club girls dress and dance, a club girl is always after one thing seducing
a man and getting paid after, they ain’t after a relationship so they know how
to move their waist on the dance floor and getting a man hard, which leads to
the bedroom where she then have sex with him. Afterwards everyone goes his/her
way.
My
ex once compared me to his friend’s girlfriend, that she once told him he is
free to pick up a girl even when they go out together, she usually points out a
girl or several girls and tell him to make his choice, who he will want to sleep
with or take home, then they laugh about it, she doesn’t care if he cheats on
her now but once they are married it becomes different, I had to ask how long
they have been together and he said about 5 years, we were just starting our
relationship. So I told him their relationship is older than ours, they live together
and we don’t, they trust each other and trying to be adventurous but in our
case we are opposite, because we were getting to know each other and learning
to trust each other. We were not spontaneous or open to new things, as I
stopped being adventurous neither was he, he believed everything is about money.
We were never ready to try new things sexually and whenever I tried he shuts me
out, the more I locked up.
So
ladies/women both single and married, you need to try as much as possible to
explore your sexuality Go to sex shops or toy shops buy stuffs like
vibrators, sex toys, handcuffs for kinky plays etc, get books like karma sutra,
learn new style and ways to love your man. Thank goodness for apple, androids and
all other smart phones where you can download apps that can help you explore
your sexuality including books too. Do your researches on how to improve your
relationship and marriages, just like I am doing now, I have gotten my
adventures back and God knows I will not give my husband room to cheat and if
he does cheat, he will always know I am home waiting to try something new with
him.
Yours
ever
Jennifer
M
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I will always try to share my research with my fellow readers every time I get
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