I often wonder why guys act like babies,is it because they feel they are stronger than the women or because God made a woman out of the ribs of a guy. Not withstanding why will a guy feel too import and yet complain when a gurl doesn't show appreciation.
I once met a guy through a friend,we started talking and became friend, he made complains of things my friend did to him and I was shocked and at the same time not surprise because I knew what my friend was capable of. Little did I know that all where part of his scheme to wow another victim to his side and play the innocent one. We got talking, then he claimed he liked me. He once told me that my friend wasn't caring and that she never asked him how his journey was or how his meetings went all she cared about was the money he promised her and stuffs.
As we became closed, he asked me out on a date, told me a lot of stuffs. I felt all he said about my friend was true. not until I got too carried away by his sweet tongues and thought I could trust in him. Then it happened that he travelled for the first time we were together. I asked how his journey was and how his meeting went but got no reply. The next thing he called to let me know that he was looking for money to carry out a contract, I felt bad that I had no money to help and promised to try and raise some money. which I tried and couldn't get any. After telling him, I realised he stopped calling, picking my calls or even replying my text messages.I actually thought that it was because of the fact that I couldn't raise money for him, he denied it, little did I know I was right,but I choose to forget it and let Go be the judge.
A few months later we spoke again and he said he wanted to see me so we could chat, which I went to see him, we spoke at length, he even told me to let my friend know we are dating. I did promise to let her know then thought about it,I felt it wouldn't be fair as I didn't bargain for that. Then the big mystery happened, I didn't hear from him again, so I made up my mind not to tell my friend. He called after a few days to say that he doesn't trust girl that stay out of the country because of the experience he had with a girl that came in for the holidays some years back. Right then I realised that he was a fool, an idiot.I thought guys don't act in such way. But this guy was just a big baby, who isn't ready for the word "COMMITMENT". He is a big time player, not ready to settle down.
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Nice one gurl
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